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The Pearls of Great Price...

10/28/2019

Most years, I consider October to be the calm between the back-to-school & holiday seasons. Maybe it's just me, but this year feels different. This October gives me a sense of everything being 'stirred up' or in flux. You can feel that change in the air, literally, as the temperatures cool. Also all the activity this month has brought so much to the forefront--the good, the bad, and the ugly--resulting in mixed emotions:
SGC babies being born and more to come (yeay!) Caring for our ill or aging family members Impeachment hearings All Souls Day to honor our dearly departed The Church considering married priests & female deacons Black magic hexes on the President, his cabinet & supporters Canonization of new saints Reported increase in satanic activity leading up to Halloween 40 Days for Life Campaign to end abortion Holy Rosary Month I saved rosary month for last because it truly is the best! During this tumultuous October, one thing has given me a stable footing: praying the rosary. As St. Padre Pio would say, "Bring me my weapon!" The rosary our greatest weapon against evil. Why? Pardon the simplicity but because the devil fears Mary. By the power of God, she has "crushed the serpent's head" or defeated him (Gen 3:15) by giving birth to Jesus Christ, the Lord of all who overcame death for all mankind so that we too may join Him in Heaven (Rev 19:10). Simple, right? Hmmm...check out The Bible Project for a detailed, animated explanation. The kids & teens will love it too!

I don't pray the rosary every day of the year (as I should), but when life warrants Divine intervention or special thanksgiving (oh, I think the long list above qualifies), I bring in the heavy artillery...rosary novena and litany prayers.

You know what a novena is but in case you ever need to explain it to a non-Catholic, a novena is a traditional Catholic form of prayer where you ask our Lord to answer a specific need or prayer request over a period of nine days. As with any prayer, we submit ourselves to the Lord's will. With all sincerity, we approach God with the attitude of 'thy will be done'. We offer our request, but remain faithful to God even if our request isn't granted in the manner we expected. After all, the goal of prayer is not to see what we can get out of God. We pray to be in communion with God, to understand His will so that our hearts may be transformed, according to His plan for us. (CCC 2565) When we align our will to His will is when our prayers have the greatest chance of bearing fruit. For when we pray, we bare our hearts to God, and humbly acknowledge that we depend on Him for all our needs. We trust in His goodness. When we do all these things, we hold up our end of man's covenant with God. (CCC 2562-2564)

Not all novenas require praying the rosary. But that's my go-to since I was raised to believe that asking the Lord's mother, our spiritual mother to intercede on our behalf, only magnifies and beautifies our request to God. After all, Jesus is Lord and the most perfect, obedient son. How could He refuse a request from His perfect mother?

This is just one suggestion to incorporate the novena into your prayer life: when praying the rosary, before announcing the first mystery state your petition or prayer intention, "I offer this rosary for the victims of abortion". Following each "glory be", add the requiem prayer:
P. Eternal rest grant unto (name of person or group e.g. "all the souls in purgatory"), O Lord.
R. And let perpetual light shine upon them (him, her).
P. May they rest in peace.
R. Amen.

I recite the same prayer for 9 consecutive days, ideally at the same time each day. It may not be convenient, but I suppose that's what sacrifice means. When we pray, we offer a sacrifice (ourselves, our time, our labor) to God. There are many novena prayers, specific to the request or related to feast days. Find a list at Catholic Novena App. Prayer is between you and God so you may use these guides and customize your prayers.

If you haven't had a chance to pray the rosary this month in honor of Holy Rosary month, you still have time! Stretch yourself and commit to a novena. For a quick how-to on praying novenas, watch this video from Catholic.org for a simple explanation. For those who already pray the rosary every day, good for you! Let's all pray for each other and the intentions of Pope Francis.

Reflection: In the image of God the Father

10/21/2019

Admittedly, I am one of those moms who really looks forward to school breaks. I love having my kids home for some much needed R&R or taking them somewhere fun to make new memories. Then...reality hits when the vacation begins. We drove up to Great Wolf Lodge water park resort for a Fall Break "staycation". No sooner had we settled into our room than the complaining and bickering began. I kept my calm until I didn't. My husband got saint points for taking the kids to the water slides for an hour while I stayed in the hotel room to do some homework for my adult catechesis class at the Kino Institute. (Yes, I will unabashedly plug the program all year long!)
How could these kids be so thoughtless?! Sure, they're good kids for the most part. But they have these moments when they seem spoiled and ungrateful, and act like well, un-discipled kids. I know they'll apologize and we'll have fun but they'll keep making the same mistakes over and over again! It's exhausting.
I opened my text book, Understanding the Scriptures and read the assigned reading to help me simmer down. Genesis in a nutshell: God created a perfect bond between Himself and Adam & Eve. They failed Him when they chose sin over trusting God. Cain failed God when he killed Abel. Lamech was evil, fail. Seth's line, fail. Noah was a righteous man! Oh but eventually, fail. Abraham, the spiritual father of us all. He was obedient, but failed God too! (Spoiler alert to no one: Jesus and His mother, Mary were the only ones who never failed or sinned against God.) God never fails. He patiently and inexhaustibly keeps His promise. We all make mistakes. You know this. I know this. But at the time, my frustration blinded me from the truth. So I prayed and submitted myself to the Holy Spirit. As I read, the Holy Spirit filled my heart with grace and understanding. As we have learned, God created us in His image. My inclination is to think of myself as a child of God as He is our Heavenly Father, and love him as a reflection of His love for us. That's true. But God also calls us to be like Him as God the Father. His love and mercy ought to reflect in the parenting of our children. Yes, for the most part, I am a just and loving parent. Even merciful. But a patient one? Not so much.

It was humbling for God to remind me, through the figures of the Old Testament, of who I am. That is, a woman who fails God and makes mistakes over and over and over again; a child who is forgiven by God over and over and over again. So I need to be a patient parent like Him and forgive over and over and over again, especially the members of my family whom God has entrusted in my care. The Holy Spirit gently held up the mirror and showed me that, by losing my patience, I behave exactly how I don't want my kids to be, like that kid. You know, the spoiled and ungrateful one.

Thank you Holy Spirit! That reality check helped me change my attitude and we had the memorable family vacation we were looking for. If anyone would like a glimpse into a 'spiritual mirror', read Understanding the Scriptures: A Complete Course on Bible Study by Scott Hahn.
In His Service,
Cecyll LoBue
SGC President 2019-2020
SGCPresident.98@gmail.com